A Child is very sweet little flower who is trying new things in this world. He/She is so innocent that he/she does anything without caring the damn world.
He/She = I will refer with she but it’s for both Genders.
It’s a correct phrase “Child when he is young learns | remembers faster “so whatever happens with them it affects their entire life. A girl whom I know was residing near my home. She was as beautiful as cute as a child that everyone enjoys to play with her. She was very good friend of mine. She was sexually abused when she was 9. I came to this incident when we were 19 years old. We used to share everything, so one day she was so horrified by seeing a movie. I asked her what happened. There was only one reply after so much poking by me “I was abused by a man at very young age”. I was shocked! She explained me everything that there was an uncle who used to visit their home regularly. So one day when parents were out for some occasion he came & started misbehaving with her. At first she didn’t understand what’s happening but when later he crossed his limit then everything was lost. She was so scared because he threatens her to kill her parents if she opens her mouth. This used to continue till age of 14. Some day she got the courage to tell her mom but her mom won’t believe her. She thought it’s her excuse to go to school or reason for her school bad results. Here it’s correct phrase “Parents please believe your child whether it’s lie or not”. Parents should cross check what’s the truth.
So finally when I was told this I was heated up with anger and decided to take revenge somehow. But we collectively talked with her parents & filed FIR with cops.
Now, relationship is broken with so-called uncle & she is very happy & trying to move on in her life. I would say one thing please please never ever leave your child in confidence that she is safe with someone else. Your child is always safe with you only. Also, teach them from very young age no one should touch their private parts whomsoever it may be in this world. Now a day’s parents are so busy in earning in this fast world that they forget about their baby for whom they have prayed a lot and for whom they are earning.
!!! Listen to your child, Believe them, Make them feel protected; Don’t trust too much on anyone !!!
Stay chill & bring brightness in your life