SUICIDE WAS NEVER THE OPTION & NEVER WILL BE !

No Suicide

I met my friend for the last time. I waited & waited for so long but I didn’t see him again. This was the most horrific thing happened to me till date.

Raj and I were great friends. I met him in college and from then we were like chimp and dale. Today he left me & went in another world which no one has ever seen.

But Y???

Question still arises in my mind?

We came to know he had a bad relationship with a girl. She broke with him & he was not able to control. He hanged himself from roof top. Today he left his parents alone unanswered to many questions. He was the only child they have. They are now shattered and no one to care about them. He loved his mom so much but why he didn’t care then. Is 3 years of love with your GF | BF more than 25 years of love for your parents?

I also came across the news that two students committed suicide due to pressure of studies. Sometimes it is of family pressure, sometimes work pressure. But one question, Is this pressure more prestigious than your life? Why can’t you understand that pressures of breakup, work, money, family etc are only for short duration. After that duration, you will realize thank god you didn’t do anything wrong which might have landed your dear ones in trauma.

Prove this world that you are not coward & you are not running away from your problems. Face it & kill it. If no one cares for you then you start caring for yourself ! Don’t give a shit to anyone who can’t understand you.

Solution:-

SUICIDE WAS NEVER THE OPTION & NEVER WILL BE!

The only reason for committing suicide is stress & pressure. You can always deal with stress by communicating with friends, parents or someone close to you. If they can’t solve your problem then talk to yourself are your pressure more than your life. What will happen after suicide? What will happen to your dreams, your parents, your loved once.

Remember your best time in life & imagine will you be able to enjoy that moment again. The person or the problem that is making you stressful or giving you unnecessary tension just kick their ass off. Remember it’s your life & only yours, No one in this world can snatch it from you. There are always solutions to the problem; just you have to give some time to yourself.

Time heals everything & Remember your best time & Wish to live your best moment again & Don’t give a damn to the problems.

Be chill & Live life happily! [ Biggest gift of God ]

Child Abuse A Word That Kills

Child Abuse

A Child is very sweet little flower who is trying new things in this world. He/She is so innocent that he/she does anything without caring the damn world.

He/She = I will refer with she but it’s for both Genders.

It’s a correct phrase “Child when he is young learns | remembers faster “so whatever happens with them it affects their entire life. A girl whom I know was residing near my home. She was as beautiful as cute as a child that everyone enjoys to play with her. She was very good friend of mine. She was sexually abused when she was 9. I came to this incident when we were 19 years old. We used to share everything, so one day she was so horrified by seeing a movie. I asked her what happened. There was only one reply after so much poking by me “I was abused by a man at very young age”. I was shocked! She explained me everything that there was an uncle who used to visit their home regularly. So one day when parents were out for some occasion he came & started misbehaving with her. At first she didn’t understand what’s happening but when later he crossed his limit then everything was lost. She was so scared because he threatens her to kill her parents if she opens her mouth. This used to continue till age of 14. Some day she got the courage to tell her mom but her mom won’t believe her. She thought it’s her excuse to go to school or reason for her school bad results. Here it’s correct phrase “Parents please believe your child whether it’s lie or not”. Parents should cross check what’s the truth.

So finally when I was told this I was heated up with anger and decided to take revenge somehow. But we collectively talked with her parents & filed FIR with cops.

Now, relationship is broken with so-called uncle & she is very happy & trying to move on in her life. I would say one thing please please never ever leave your child in confidence that she is safe with someone else. Your child is always safe with you only. Also, teach them from very young age no one should touch their private parts whomsoever it may be in this world. Now a day’s parents are so busy in earning in this fast world that they forget about their baby for whom they have prayed a lot and for whom they are earning.

!!! Listen to your child, Believe them, Make them feel protected; Don’t trust too much on anyone !!!

Stay chill & bring brightness in your life

LOVE | LIVE | LIFE

LOVE | LIVE | LIFE

Love? It’s always different for different people. It has no age no religion only Love.

Love for your Family, Friends, Girlfriend, Boyfriend. In this article I will talk about GF’s & BF’s love.

When we fall in love actually we should rise in love because it gives support to stand strong in any situation of life. My friend was in love when he was in 11th standard of his high school. His girlfriend was in 12th.Love has no age to start today I understand but I also understood that was not permanent love. She came in his life & affected him so much that he was about to fail in his 12th final exams. Today she is with another boy friend, imagine if he had not understood before that it’s not permanent love then today he might not be successful. You should love but never ever give her that much priority that you lose your track of achieving your dreams. I would say love her like crazy because its right phrases “Love is not LOVE until its crazy”. I am not saying girls are wrong or boys are right it’s just you always have to keep your another track on right path no matter what happens, she leaves or not.

SAME APPLIES FOR GIRLS TOO, ITS NOT ONLY ABOUT BOYS ITS FOR GIRLS ALSO WHO GET DITCHED BY IDIOT BOYS.

Always love the person so intensely that you may never regret if I could have done this or that for her. Just do it whatever comes in your mind something crazy for her. Make her feel special that’s what girls like. One suggestion for all boys/girls “Enjoy Love but keep your other priority on parallel road”. Either [Love & other priority] of the priority should not cross link each other. I bet you if you have this thing clear in your mind you will touch the sky of your dreams.

Why most relations fail not because your love is over it’s only because you’re affected by your other priority like job, education, expectations etc.  Never think about the relation who has ruined you think about new one who will change your world & understand you. It’s the correct phrase “Someone Somewhere is made for You” so just keep going.

If you are ditched once & you think all boys/girls are same then you are in wrong set of mind. It was time which was wrong & your priorities which were effecting.

Love your partner like hell; Live your life according to your dreams; Life is for once.

Dream Big & Achieve !

Continued from https://everythingwalathoughts.wordpress.com/2013/01/27/engineer-before-and-after/

After successfully depicting my Engineering life to all the wonderful people, here comes in other words of “inspiration”.

You always love hanging out & try to postpone the things which you fear of doing but the fact is, it will never leave you. It’s the correct phrase “World is too small but life is too long” so face your fear. I also had a fear of how will I solve my math’s problem, how will I call that person whom I don’t know but eventually I overtook my fear & said “hey listen what’s the most disaster that can happen”. Today I am fearless & I have big dreams to achieve. Just listen to your brains [I will not say heart] & do it. Don’t worry about the end results. Just complete the task which you initiated; at the end you will always win. No work done by you is wasted, NEVER! It will somehow pay you in the end, either you will not achieve of what you thought at the first place but mind it you will have the result that I can guarantee you. Now, with this result what you do is up to you either sit & leave everything [never repeat it] & lose all your hope of anytime in life dreaming big & initiating anything or get the analytics done [how to achieve more].

What’s the most beautiful thing in life? It’s Life which you get only once. So be fearless have faith in divine not being superstitious about everything. You live only once & can achieve all what you think only once. Opportunity knocks the door once & what you have now is more than enough to complete your dreams. Excuses, reasons are only for losers who laugh on others to let them down. It’s the correct phrase “When I can’t do don’t let anyone else do” but excuse me I am not just any other guy next door. I am who I am & I can tear apart everything which comes between my dreams. Just don’t think too much, you will end up screwing your beautiful ideas which could have made big today. Just do it.

GO LIVE YOUR DREAMS & ACHIEVE IT!!!

Try Try Try until you succeed may be wrong in today’s fast pacing world. Try Try & learn | Analyze | ACHIEVE IT!

See you all beautiful people in next Article, Till then sit back & ENJOY.

Engineer Before and After !

Engineer

I got admission in engineering college with IT branch. I was on top of the cloud but who knows what will come next. I shifted myself in hostel, got worried about ragging. First day in hostel saw mom-dad leaving me, felt sad. Later realized this is the time I have to grow up & become something in life [That something I didn’t find till now].All first year students [Fresher’s] were given same floor to live so I was bit relax that I am not alone [There are more kicked ass like me].Fortunately seniors were cool, just asked us our names & sing one song. At night we all sat together and started typical boys talk. Finally morning came for my first day in Engineering College, excited-nervous so much things going in mind.

In first year we all have common subjects so in my class we were Comps, IT, Electronics & Mechanical students. New to engineering and never understood why we have to study this subject that subject but slowly realized welcome to Engineering. First year of exams arrived & everyone had minimum one backlock[one subject fail ]. I was much tensed because in my life never had failed remark on my card. How my parents will react, what they will think? My seniors were cool, enjoying life & at then I got a chance to ask them how to study and all. They said that after first year everything it is easy because after that you become habitual of taking pressure [i: e Pass or Fail]. As the years passed on I finally realized that they were right; with tension you will make it more complicated. Just flow with the pace & don’t lose focus of clearing engineering in four golden years.

Finally I became engineer & looked back “No teacher teaches you” were the correct phrase, only self study. Practical marks can give edge over other students & increase your percentage because in theoretical exams examiners checks as if he has to go his own marriage and he is getting late. I made few good friends who are now in various reputed companies & busy in their lives. “School friends are forever ” phrase is also true because college friends come with only some purpose get away with great packages in various companies. I still hangout with my school buddies & discuss how life was | is but come with no point & then at last we laugh after giving our own philosophies.”Life is not what we think, Life is what we make” is true phrase because in first year when I got backlock I thought of quitting engineering like few other students but I thought if I will choose  another stream their also if same situation happens then? I got my answer & today I am engineer working successfully.

To be continued…